Major Events & Incidents
Track high-conflict incidents with severity scoring
Refusal to Surrender Child at Scheduled Time
OngoingRisk: 88Co-parent refused to hand over Emma at the court-ordered pickup time of 3:00 PM. Arrived at co-parent's residence at 3:05 PM. Co-parent stated 'Emma doesn't want to go' and closed the door. Called non-emergency police line at 3:20 PM. Officers arrived at 3:45 PM and facilitated transfer.
Urgent: Contact attorney immediately. Consider emergency court motion.
Court Threat via Text Message
OngoingRisk: 55Received text message at 10:32 PM threatening to 'take me back to court and get full custody' if I didn't agree to change the holiday schedule. Message contained aggressive language.
Monitor situation. Keep detailed records. Contact attorney if pattern continues.
Repeated Late Pickups — Pattern Documented
OngoingRisk: 55This is the 4th consecutive week co-parent has arrived 30+ minutes late for scheduled pickup. Documented dates: [see daily logs]. No advance notice provided on any occasion. Emma is distressed by the uncertainty.
Monitor situation. Keep detailed records. Contact attorney if pattern continues.
Gaslighting During Exchange
OngoingRisk: 88During pickup, co-parent stated in front of Emma that 'your mom is lying about everything' and 'the judge will see what she's really like.' This was said loudly in the school parking lot with other parents present.
Urgent: Contact attorney immediately. Consider emergency court motion.
Violation of No-Contact Order
ResolvedRisk: 88Co-parent contacted me directly via phone call at 11:45 PM despite active no-contact order. Call lasted approximately 3 minutes before I ended it. Voicemail left with threatening content.
Urgent: Contact attorney immediately. Consider emergency court motion.